Overcome your fear of public speaking and unlock your authentic voice with Lee Glickstein's Be Seen Now! This groundbreaking guide introduces Relational Presence, a revolutionary approach to connecting with your audience. Through practical exercises and neuroscientific insights, Glickstein helps you ditch over-rehearsing and performance techniques, replacing them with genuine connection. Learn to build confidence, manage anxiety, and harness the power of storytelling to create instant rapport. Discover how to engage listeners one-on-one, using breath and gaze to foster a truly impactful experience. Whether you're aiming for casual conversation mastery or commanding the stage, Be Seen Now! empowers you to transform public speaking from a source of dread into a joyful and fulfilling experience.
Review Be Seen Now!
"Be Seen Now!" by Lee Glickstein wasn't just a book; it was a lifeline at a pivotal moment in my life. I'd set ambitious goals for 2024 – launching a podcast and tackling some seriously intimidating public speaking engagements – things that felt miles outside my comfort zone. The fear was palpable, a knot in my stomach that tightened with every passing day. Then, serendipitously, I stumbled upon this book.
From the very first page, I felt a sense of relief wash over me. Glickstein's writing style is incredibly approachable and warm, like having a supportive conversation with a seasoned mentor. He doesn't just offer platitudes; he provides a tangible, practical path to conquering public speaking anxiety, rooted in cutting-edge brain research and relatable personal anecdotes. The concept of "Relational Presence" resonated deeply; it shifted my focus from performance and perfection to genuine connection with my audience.
The book's strength lies in its holistic approach. It’s not just about memorizing techniques or mastering stage presence; it’s about cultivating a mindset shift. Glickstein gently guides the reader to let go of over-rehearsing, over-scripting, and relying on artificial facades. Instead, he encourages embracing authenticity, drawing on personal stories to forge instant rapport, and focusing on connecting with individual listeners. The exercises are surprisingly fun and insightful, helping to solidify the concepts and build confidence gradually. It felt like unlocking a hidden potential I didn’t know I possessed.
What truly set this book apart were the personal stories woven throughout. Reading about Glickstein's own journey and the transformations he's witnessed in others instilled a powerful sense of hope and possibility. It made me believe that overcoming this fear wasn't some unattainable feat; it was a journey I could embark on, one step at a time. These narratives didn’t just illustrate the points; they made them feel personal and achievable. I found myself nodding along, recognizing my own anxieties mirrored in his experiences and those of others he shares.
The impact of "Be Seen Now!" on my life has been profound. The book not only gave me the confidence to reach out and begin booking those "out-of-my-league" speaking engagements, but it also fueled the creation of my podcast. I feel empowered, not just as a speaker, but as a communicator in all aspects of my life. My interactions feel more genuine, more connected. It’s truly remarkable how this book has had a ripple effect, transforming my approach to communication far beyond the podium or microphone. I know I'll be revisiting "Be Seen Now!" time and again, and I eagerly anticipate any future work from this insightful and inspiring author. This isn’t just a book on public speaking; it's a guide to unlocking your authentic voice and living more fully. It's a must-read for anyone seeking to improve their communication skills and find their true confidence.
Information
- Dimensions: 7.5 x 0.78 x 9.25 inches
- Language: English
- Print length: 310
- Publication date: 2024
Book table of contents
- Introduction
- PART 1: The Way of Relational Presence
- PART 2: The Element of Listening
- 3. The Element of Gaze
- 4. The Element of Stillness
- 5. The Element of Breath
- 6. The Element of Belonging
- 7. The Element of Silence
- 8. The Element of Connection
- PART On Giving a Talk
- Developing Talk Content
- From Katherine Kennedy's Book
- Suggested Structure of an Effective Talk
- Your Opening: Start with Scene from Your Life
- The Rest of Your Opening
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